off of attention? Who knew?
He chased me for three months, calling me, texting me, buying me dinner, fixing my dad's car, taking me to the movies, etc...and it was all for nothing. He knew how I felt (I was honest with him from the beginning), but he ignored my statements and kept at it. It annoyed me, honestly, but after a while he started to grow on me and I kind of liked the fact that he thought about me often enough to call me all the time.
But I really didn't want to date him, so I finally, directly, bluntly told him I wasn't interested. And now he hasn't called in almost a week. And I'm actually kinda sad about it. I mean, I thought maybe we'd still be friends...but I guess I don't blame him.
Do you ever like the attention more than the person?
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I thought I did, but I've missed him as a person for a few months now. Give your guy some time to cool off and heal his ego. If he really liked you as a person, he'll come around and realize that he wants you in his life, whether romantically or platonically. :)
@Pysia - Thanks for the comment! I hope so. He did send me a Valentine's day text and he's always friendly to me when I see him, but I have a feeling we won't be hanging out anymore.