This time, it's going to stick.
So I have this issue with breaking up with people--I usually have to do it two or three times before it sticks. Not cool, but breaking up is hard to do. Two years ago, when I broke up with the boy, it was hard because I missed him so much. Seriously, just looking at him made me like him more.
A year ago, when I broke up with bt, it was a similar type of thing. I missed talking to him all the time and telling him what I was thinking and laughing about whatever and going on adventures together. I missed all that sweet stuff. He was the sweetest guy ever.
Just recently, when I broke up with jb, it was different...I missed having a bf. Since physical touch is the number one love language for both of us, we were one of those disgusting couples that held hands at Wal-Mart and cuddled on park benches. He's also on the sweetest guy in the world list. In fact, I can honestly say I think he would do anything for me. But we can't be together anymore. We wouldn't last.
So I told him we were not doing a very good job of acting like broken up people. His response: "Oh, did you break up with me?"
Oh. my. gosh. I am a terrible person. We talked about it, and we're done for good now. Man, breaking up sucks.
So here's my question: why does it always throw me off when guys express emotions? Maybe it stems back to my childhood...
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